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There is Hope Foundation

643 Rice Rd. San Antonio, Texas 78220

There is Hope 

Helping the family endure and have hope

Premarital Counseling, Life Coaching,Biblical Counsel

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The Family. The Children

Posted on 16 May, 2019 at 14:04 Comments comments (55)
One of the things I strive to do is address some of the many things that have an affect on the family.  I address them from a Biblical stand point.  Those that do not believe in God or have an issue with God and the Church many not find what I say helpful.  But I will continue to do all I can to help the family and help our children.

One of the things I think about all the time is how God said to train up a child in the way they should go.  When a child is born, they do not know anything.  They come into this world as a blank slate.  The only thing that will be 'written on that slate' is what the parent exposes the child to.  Therefore, it is important for the parent to train the child in the way he or she should go.

Leaving a child alone to his or her own devices is not wise.  A child does not have the maturity to choose what he or she should do or feel.  The parent has to take the lead and teach/train the child.

Yes, there are obstacles.  Yes, there are trials and hindrances.  But it is still the responsibility of the parent to train the child.

I raised two children as a single parent.  I know it can be done.  Will it take sacrifice? Yes.  Will it take a lot of time and energy?  Yes.

I often tell young people, if you want to be free to do what you want when you want, do not have children. Once you have children, you have a God ordained responsibility to teach and train them.

"Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it."  Proverbs 22:6

Taking a Stand For Standards

Posted on 25 January, 2019 at 16:15 Comments comments (169)
I met an amazing lady this morning.  She is 82 years and still driving and working at one of the largest department stores in the United States.  Just talking with her reminded me of how blessed I am.  She was so lively and grateful for her life.

Recently I had been praying to the Lord about some things.  This amazing lady was used of God to give me some of my answers.

As you know, I believe in helping children be their best.  Part of that includes teaching them things.  In order to teach someone something, you have to have a foundation and material.  My foundation for teaching children is the Lord and my material is the Bible wisdom.

Many no longer believe, rely or accept the Bible as a foundational tool to teach children.  But it is.  This amazing woman I met this morning told me of how she was raised and how things taught to her kept her and prepared her for life.  She went on to tell me that her husband was in the military and lost his life due to the Vietnam War.  She told me about the 'fire and brimstone' preaching she heard in her youth.  She told me things she was taught helped make her strong.

I still believe in fire and brimstone preaching, even for the 'millennial's'. 

The word of God declares to "train up a child in the way they should go".  This still applies today.  And, if you read a little further in the Bible in the New Testament, you will find Jesus saying, "I am the way, the truth and the light" (John 14:6).

God's way is still the best way and the right way.  Our children need something and someone greater than themselves to help them maneuver through this world.

Take your children to Church.  Ask God to lead you to one that teaches the Bible way.  Yes, there are more 'bad' churches than good ones.  But, there are still some good ones.  Psychology and therapy does not change the heart.  Mind mapping does not change the heart.  God can and does still change hearts.

Jesus still loves the world (John 3:16).  The real question is does the world love Jesus?

"But Jesus said, Suffer little children, and forbid them not, to come unto me: for of such is the kingdom of heaven."  Matthew 19:14

Children and Electronics

Posted on 3 April, 2018 at 3:16 Comments comments (77)
A subject that is very dear to me is how and when children begin to use electronics.  I am a firm believer that a child should not have access to a cell phone, lap top, tablet or television during the first 5 years of their lives.  I know, it sound like a long time, but it is worth the wait for the child.  The first five years of a child's life are the informative years.  It is during this time that time should be spent helping the child learn to live without electronics.

A recent article I read stated the following: "over the past 15 years, researchers have been releasing alarming statistics on a sharp and steady increase in kids' mental illness, which is now reaching epidemic proportions:

              1.  1 in 5 children has mental health problems
              2.  43% increase in ADHA
              3.  37% increase in teen depression
              4.  200% increase in suicide rate in kids 10-14 years old"

The articles goes on to say, "children need to spend time with their parents and not an electronic device.    Children are being deprived  of the fundamentals of a healthy childhood, such as emotionally available parents, clearly defined limits and guidance, responsibilities, balanced nutrition and adequate sleep, movement and out doors and creative play, social interaction, opportunities for unstructured times and boredom."

Will follow up laater.

Children Have to Be Taught!!

Posted on 28 July, 2017 at 13:52 Comments comments (34)
I had a conversation with a lady the other day.  During the conversation she spoke about how unruly children are today; yelling at parents, making demands, being disrespectful, being disobedient, how you can not tell them anything, and if you do the parents get offended.

i thought about what she said.  And, she is right.  Not all children, but too many than it should be.

I believe in training or teaching children right from wrong.  According to the word of God, He said to train them up in the way they should go.  A child should not be allowed to have control.  The parent is the one with the God given authority and they should not relinquish it to a child.  At no time is it ok for a child to be disobedient to parents (unless the parent is instructing the child to break the law or do something that will cause them harm).  Parents should not get offended if some one within right, corrects their child.  I raised two children alone.  I needed the eyes of others to help me.  

Children need structure.  That structure should come from parents.  And, I am not talking about enrolling in every sport available for their age group.  I am talking about things like boundaries (what they can and can not do).  If a parent allows a child to have everything they want, go wherever they want when they want, that parent is asking for trouble.  There has to be a NO in there somewhere.

Why structure?  Because in the real world, no one gets everything they want.  In he real world, you are going to be told no.  In the real world, your child is not going to be the only one that counts.  Having structure helps build character.
Children must learn how to handle rejection in a constructive manner.

To the parents, take a look and see how you are doing.  It really is ok to say, no.

Just a Little Time

Posted on 29 June, 2016 at 18:36 Comments comments (177)
It is so easy to be busy.  It is so easy to just, run out of time.  But, if you have children, you need to make time.  A parent has a limited time to mold, influence their children.  Getting and being involved with your child on a day to day basis will help reduce behavior issues as they grow.

Take the time.  Make the time.  It will be worth it in the end.

M. Webb

Parents as Examples

Posted on 23 July, 2014 at 21:11 Comments comments (28)
Parents are the first example a child will learn from.  Therefore, it is important for parents to set and be good examples.  A child is born with a clean slate so to speak.  They have no sin.  There mind is clean.  There heart is clean.  Every parent should ask themselves, 'what do I want to impress on this clean mind and clean heart?'

We are going to take a few weeks to look at this.  Our children are important and so loved by the Lord.  Therefore we parents must take heed how we treat them and what we teach them.

There is more to come.  And, feel free to comment and share your thoughts.
The Word of God commands us to train up a child in the way they should go.  We must be diligent to do this.

Pastor Webb

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